Here in the Eastern United States we have just had a big snow storm. My neighbors were all out yesterday making sure that everyone’s car got dug out from under 20 inches of snow. Whenever there is a weather or other crisis people every where over tend to be thoughtful and generous in showing caring toward others.
Seeing the generosity of spirit brought forth by the snow storm got me thinking about the value of doing acts of random kindness. It is the little things that build closeness and intimacy in relationships. During this season of giving we tend to focus on giving presents to show our love. Yet it will be the giving of our time and caring through out the year that will create closeness in our relationships.
Remember daily to think about what would give your family members pleasure. What do you appreciate about your partner? Be generous with showing gratitude for the meals prepared, the house maintained, the laundry done etc. Gratitude nurtures relationships. Notice what needs to be done and do it. It is the daily acts of kindness - random or routine-that create closeness and love.
What a great example of random acts of kindness. You valued what your husband did and forgave the “mistake”.