Is There a Cure for Depression?

Last time I wrote about the new Happiness Pill which  is being sold as the answer for our longing to feel good.  Since then I have seen ads for pills with similar claims marketed under a variety of  names.  Of course anti depressants make similar promises. It is no wonder that the percentage of people [...]

Happiness Pill

Did you read the article about the new happiness pill which appeared in many papers?   The article claimed that this pill  could  become the greatest growing mood product. It is touted to be the answer to millions of Americans who are struggling to stay happy.  Just two pills a day will ease stress and anxiety and help [...]

Skills For Handling Yourself When Angry

There are simple skills that can greatly improve well being.  For instance,  do you have effective skills for managing yourself when you are upset?  This is such a common problem that knowing what to do could  make all the difference.  When we are emotionally worked up it helps to know how to get control back.

Here [...]

Are You in Charge of Your Energy?

How are you using your energy?  It is so easy for us to be going through the day without having any conscious awareness of where our energy goes.

Carol had been feeling increasingly frustrated  that she could not find any time for herself.  It seemed that she was constantly responding to requests and demands.  I suggested [...]

Three Cups of Tea

I read the book Three Cups of  Tea by Greg Mortenson a while back.  Now I am reading it again. The school my grandchildren attend has chosen this book for a family summer read.  Every week the school emails us a new question to discuss.  Since I am in Annapolis, Maryland and my grandchildren are [...]

Increase Your Self-Confidence

I love quotes because they succinctly capture  truisms.   Here is one by Rosalyn Carter that I like “If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can’s accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.  In those few words she sums up that the [...]

Solutions Not Problems

If you think you have a problem what you really want is to find a solution.  I have found over the years of working with people that in many situation a problem solving approach does not work so well. Looking for solutions achieves good results.

Here is a good example.  The other day I coached Judy [...]